Remembering Bob Monaco

More than anything else, perhaps, Bob was a lover of new talent. It was his gift, his pain and his heart. And he was great at it. I first met Bob Monaco when he introduced the Daughters of Eve in a Kankakee rock club called The Happening. Or maybe it was the Mauds. I know it wasn’t Rufus but it could have been the Cryan’ Shames, The Shadows of Knight, The American Breed, The Flock, Styx or any one of a dozen other Midwest Bands whose career has been helped by Bob Monaco. Then a buddy of mine who used to (and maybe still does) sing in Neil Diamond‘s back up band, calls me from this studio in the Valley and says he’s working with a producer from the Midwest whose now an A & R man for ABC/Dunhill records and he puts him on the line. It’s Bob Monaco. Bob says he wants to hook up. When we do he tells me that he has this idea for a book about the music business that really told it the way it is. No scandals, but a lot of things like how to know when the record label is lying to you or when you’re lying to yourself. It would tell the way things actually worked. So Bob and I meet. Out of that meeting was The Platinum Rainbow, my first and some still say best book. Bob and I would sit down and talk about a particular subject into the tape recorder. And we’d have fun and get crazy but we’d also get everything we knew and every story we’d ever heard into that tape recorder on a particular subject. Bob really knew the industry and I knew it from the aspiring artist side. I’d written 280 sets of lyrics in Nashville and 125 of them became songs and 30 of those were published and fifteen of those recorded and two of them released as records. And none were hits.

      The Platinum Rainbow sold 250,000 copies and Bob and I were on something like 2000 radio stations talking about it. And a lot of these were rock stations — stations that just did music. Music and Bob and Jim. That’s what my friends use to call us after that. The Bob & Jim Show. But we were so used to it, after being on the road all the time. We did TV too (Regis, NBC, CBS News Shows). One time we were racing to get to this station in Minneapolis and the cab driver was this stoner kid who couldn’t find the place. And he couldn’t find the station on the dial either. But it was the number one talk station in Minneapolis which in those days meant the number one in town. So we finally find it and get brought onto the program which the DJ is doing live. He starts introducing us but we have no idea of what has been happening on the program. They just sit us down at the mikes and whammo, the guy says, “Bob Monaco and James Riordan join us now. They are the authors of,,,” And he goes into this big spiel. After our introduction the guy goes, “Bob, what do you think of today’s topic…” And I clamp my hand over my mouth to keep from laughing because I know Bob has no idea of the damn topic, And Bob looks at me and smiles. Then he goes, “Well, that’s really more Jim’s area..” And the guy turns to me and of course, all I can do is stammer around while Bob laughs. God, we had fun. Remember those rubber dolls whose eyes would bulge out when you squeezed them?, Bob was on mike talking at this one station and I put one of those in front of his face and squeezed it until it’s eyes popped out. And Bob laughed. But he didn’t miss a beat. He was so good on the air – smooth, fun and he had that great jazzy voice. More than anything else, Bob loved to find new talent. He found Chakka Khan and all those great Chicago bands. He found several others in L.A. And he found me.

     Before I heard Bob was sick I dedicated this poetry book I have coming out to the people who took chances on me over the years. And the first name on the list was Bob Monaco. It still is. Then one day Bob’s brother Gary called to say Bob was sick and four days later he called to say he was gone. I was glad that we revised the book last year so we got to talk a lot. I loved Bob and Bob loved me. We had so much fun together that it was a shame the music business had to intervene. Bob’s love/hate affair with the music business is widely known. I talked him into rolling the dice once more. The deal blew but Bob and I stayed friends. We always stayed friends.

   I loved thinking about how Bob used to get in the groove in the studio and pump his arm in time to the music. To me they’ll always be this “Bob Monaco Groove”. I hear it all the time – often in songs that weren’t Bob’s but had the feel he did so well. Bob wasn’t about the money. He was about helping people even when he couldn’t. He got himself into some wonderful jams, but he got out of them as well. He loved talent, he loved even more seeing that talent get recognition. Bob never mastered the killer music business executive model. The ones who always come out on top. Bob had too much heart for that. Whether it was producing Chaka, Three Dog Night, Tina Turner, Crow, Airto & Flora Purim or whoever Bob always threw himself into the music. He got a Grammy for Best r&b record for Tell Me Something Good but he should’ve got a lot more. Bob always made choices for the heart and sometimes it cost him. Which is good in a way because now we can remember Bob Monaco, a guy with a heart in a business with no heart. And my friend. Forever

28 Comments

  1. Hi James, I hope you remember me. I have been searching the internet frequently and checking Facebook trying to find Bob. Today my search lead me to your blog. I am crushed! I so wanted to hear some more of his stories and see his face light up while he was telling them. He stayed with me in Tarzana at that crazy practically empty house on Yolanda off of Ventura Blvd. He was always laughing about what was taking place in my kitchen. I was running those record stores called Big Bens. They were part of The Wherehouse. Anyway, please fill me in just a bit. Where was he living? Did he remarry or was the wedding I went to the last? Was he in the studio over the last 10 years? And lastly what happened? You mentioned here that he was sick. What was the nature of his illness and when did he pass? He was such a sweet man!!!! And such a lover of music!!!! I am so sad right now but thankful for having him touch my life! Thank you for creating this place to share our stories about this wonderful, funny, talented man!

    • I forgot to mention the reason he was laughing about the kitchen activities was because that was where you guys were writing The Platinum Rainbow…not your typical kitchen activity nor where one thinks books get written….but that one did!

    • I worked with and hung out with Bob Monaco when he first got into the business working for an independent record distributor in Chicago maybe was 1960 or so..!! We hung out a lot..

      • Hi Jim! I remember hearing your name a lot. I think we might’ve met once. Thanks for commenting. Blessings!

  2. I met Bob in Las Vegas about 1997 .
    What a great man ; your right he had that soft smooth velvty voice.
    Great story teller ; worked with Bob when he had the Mtg. CO.
    Please give me a call ; lets talk !
    R.I.P. Bob ;
    Your friend ,
    Gary
    303 899-5909

  3. Jim…best wishes to you..met you and Bob in the early 80’s at one of your seminars. ..just for kix…do you remember the clock I made for You and Bob using your platinum rainbow book cover…? Just curious. ..take care

  4. I played guitar at Bob’s wedding and produced some TV commercials for him back in the 80’s. I will always remember Bob as a kind and generous person who inspired my creativity. I am a better person as the result of having known Bob on both a personal and professional level.

    My only regret is that I lost touch with Bob after I left California as the result of a job transfer. For reasons that are unexplained, he entered my consciousness today which is what ultimately led me to your touching post.

    James, Thank you for your thoughtful post. it has rekindled a ton of fond memories!

  5. Great book
    You guys are. Crazy cats
    Love all those contacts
    And the truth
    “Kick your brother out of the band”
    “And remember me when you make it big”
    “Be nice ,on the way up to the top, cause It’s a long way down,”
    Peace.

  6. I just Found This I felt I needed to add something about Bob–He was Like You say-I brought Joyce Kennedy and Glen Murdock from MOTHERS FINEST to his House-(in LA)-She just recorded an Album on A&M-and needed some help-He sat down and Talked to us like Friend-He told us The “RUFUS STORY” VEY Enlightening-I known Gavin Christopher also-we were all part of the Chicago Music Scene-with Baby Huey CICAGO (Formerly The CTA)-I wish he was still here-I just finished my first Album “GIVING IT BACK” 50 years of Soul and Blues. http://www.randybluesmanhock.com I think He would have liked it.

  7. I worked with Bob at his mortgage company. He remains my favorite boss of all time. He was friend, a father, an inspiration, and yes, a great comedian! I’ve enjoyed reading your memories of him. Thanks for sharing them.

    • Thank you for this he was like that with me also

  8. I met Bob in 1968 in Chicago at a club street level in his building at 25 east Chestnut. He shared offices with Bill Trout, Jim Golden and their moniker was Arkham Artists/Dunwish productions. At that moment, my band, the Light Brigade, were giging in the club downstairs. Bob came to meet me because the club operators “did not like” volume rock bands and we were the first to be accepted. Irving Azoff had called me to cancel the upcoming gig as one of his bands had had a hard time with the manager, Sal Mango, about volume. Sal had come to me and put his arm around me and claim us as his own. Bob couldn’t initially get his head around what had happened. Through that Bob & Bill opened up to us and we became associated. Mini Ripperton was one of their artists with Rotary Connection, Mason Profitt, Buckinghams, and others. Bob and I became mates of a sort and remember being in his house (as I remember) listening to a tape. He kept picking my brain about my thoughts as we listened to demo tapes through head phones. One especially caught my attention and I made a comment about them being beattlesk and harmonious musical and electric yet soft. This group was seeking a deal or at least a new deal and these were demo takes. The group was Bread. Signed with Elektra around that time. Bob was the musicians friend. So many folks that I worked around, near and far and etc were more about money than music.
    It was the early 70’s at a billboard convention in conversation with several people I made the comment that the entertainment business is the only business with zero rules. Bob reflected that it was abut the music and the innovation and creativeity and experimentation that flowed from those persons loyal to their interior inspirations, musically speaking. More memories but for another time.

  9. I Love Bob. I talked to him at least 3xs a week even when he moved to Henderson, He was a very intelligent and wise man I so miss him. He even mailed me his book. Helped me a lot

  10. Bob gave me a copy of the book and I I I enjoyed reading it. I later shared it with a musician/tour leader in Europe who had already read it and was guided by the practical wisdom set out page after page.

    Thanks for this, Randell Monaco

  11. BOB! I missed the intellectual and street smart jokes we’ve had. I was a loan officer working as a 1099 scenario, well he called me the “Star” in Equistar Mtge on hmmmm 3232 W Charleston. We got along so good but an offer I can not refuse got us separated but I visited him before he died and he was well healthwise with a new girl friend. I write music and I still do. He liked a couple of mine but it was terrible studio cheap quality. How good Bob was? I’m a Beatle fan and he reminds me of G.Martin. One song of mine as soon as he hears it, Instantaneously he said “I like it BUT it needs a lot of work”. He said do it again in a faster and bouncy beat. And my goodness, why didn’t I see that one? It was good, and better. Drums and rhythm guitar I changed. So as The Beatles gave Martin “Please Please Me”. He told them something like good, good, BUT “MAKE IT FASTER AND LIVELY”. Their 1st #1. But Bob told me how the industry was and he and a gentleman named Marvin convinced me just to stay in real estate loans. The loudest laughed from a man and Bob’s faced was red is when I walked in to his office from an appointment doing loans, I said “Bob that song I wrote in the 80’s, I finally got a good bridge for it!” HE LAUGHED, I LAUGHED, not knowing what was so funny. He said something like..”Mike you must have broken the record length for a writer’s block!” I laughed again with him. My wife and I went out to sushi dinner in Vegas with his then wife Justine, we had a great time. After all these years, I missed our fun times. Listening to Tarrel & Gaye on YouTube, it switched to Bee Gees’ Nights on Broadway. Of which reminded me the Platinum I saw along with “Rufus & Chaka’s Tell Me Something Good” on the hallway wall of Equistar Mtge. Here’s the deal…I am Asian. He never looked down at me in any condescending way. He treated me as I am. BTW, My wife and I are just laughing hard about when I brought Bob a lunch special “Ginger-Beef-Curry”. AND…That I would leave you with your own creativity, wild and funny imaginations what happened. LOL!

  12. Bobbie help me out immensely in my career. When did Bob die And what did he die of? Was Patty still with him? I produced records with Bob at wooden nickel records and he was one of my mentors . Please let me know.

    • Hi. Bob and I wrote The Platinum Rainbow together. Bob died in 2009 of cancer. He was living in Las Vegas,

    • Barry, Bob and I divorced the year we moved to L.A. (thanks for driving me and the kids from Chicago!) . Bob was married twice more after that. He died from cancer.

  13. Wow. Sad news.. I built records with Bobby for many years (1970’s). I met Bobby when I worked as an engineer for Donny Sciarrotta at Quantum Recording Studio. Bobby and I worked on many LP’s together both for ABC and for Jimmy at Wooden Nickel.
    Boy do I have stories. I used to baby sit Bobby’s Pantera when he’d take out his boat ‘Tell me something good’ for a quick weekend trip down the coast.
    We worked around Hollywood together for awhile after 3 Dog but mostly at Bubby and Susan’s Conway Recording.
    This is, once again, sad news for me and my wife of 45 years, Linda, who loved him too. Our memories are strong and fond of Bobby Monaco. Thank you for your work sir, it’s a book well done. Bobby and I had many moments that return through some of your pages. Bobby old friend …thanks a million.

    • Thanks, Scott. I appreciate you sharing those memories. A Pantera! Great times.

      • Bobby used to say …”I don’t know what you’re doing to my Pandy Scotti but keep it up …she runs great when I get her back from you.” She ran great because unlike Bobby …I really opened her up. I had her up to 150 mph, early one morning, on I-5 outta Sagus headed for Boquett Canyon. Bobby bought his Pantera from Donny Sciarrotta who had the fellas at Parnelli Jones race car shop hop her up a bit. As you said sir …Great times. Thanks for bringing back old memories! I’m grateful.

  14. What a pleasure to read this! I just thought of Bob and googled him – and found this. I sang at Bob’s wedding (Jussie? Justine?) with my husband Chris, and we had the privilege of sitting in his office with our pal Baba Elefante while Bob recorded himself reciting some stories for Platinum Rainbow! He just wanted to have some people there so he wasn’t just speaking into a tape recorder. A good man, a good heart.

  15. In the platinum rainbow you said, “being a rock star is a lot of hard work. It’s much easier to PRETEND to be a rock star. Those words have guided me, as I find it is much easier.


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